The secret to an unforgettable, long-lived adventure is securing deep player investment right from the start. A GM must begin by emphasizing the initial buy-in from the players and the implied social contract of committing to the game, but the real connection comes from a deeper understanding. This guide provides a powerful tool to do just that: 20 introspective questions that push players beyond a simple backstory and into the core of who their character truly is. The more deeply a player thinks about their character, the more invested they become, laying the groundwork for the epic stories and precious memories you'll create together.
Start from the beginning by first placing emphasis on the initial buy-in of the player and the implied social contract of a typical once a week or more commitment to you and your players. Every GM is different, and I’m not saying you should have a ton of faith ore set any expectations in the final product, but the first rule of sales is, “You don’t get if you don’t ask…”. So ask…
You can’t answer these without some deep thought. The deeper they go, the more invested they are. It’s that simple folks.
Understanding Their Core
What is a lie you've told that you still think about? This goes beyond a simple "worst sin" and explores the nuanced weight of guilt and personal ethics. It reveals their capacity for deception and what truly haunts them.
What's something you believe is true, even if you can't prove it? This question probes their foundational beliefs, their worldview, and what they hold as absolute truth, whether it's about justice, love, or the nature of the universe.
What are you willing to sacrifice everything for, and what's a line you will never cross? This gets at their deepest values and reveals their true moral compass. It's about what they hold as sacred and what defines their boundaries.
Describe a time you failed to live up to your own expectations. What was the fallout? This question explores self-perception, disappointment, and the kind of internal reckoning they experience.
What is one thing you regret not saying or doing? This delves into their unfulfilled desires, their fears of vulnerability, and the emotional baggage they carry.
What brings you genuine, simple joy? This reveals their connection to the world, their capacity for happiness, and what they find beautiful in the mundane.
If you could have a single, perfect day, what would it look like? This question is a powerful tool for understanding their deepest hopes and desires. It paints a picture of their ideal existence and what they truly crave.
Relationships and Perceptions
Who is the one person you could tell anything to, and what do they represent to you? This uncovers their most significant relationship and what they seek from others—be it acceptance, guidance, or simply a safe space.
What do you want people to remember you for? This question gets at their legacy and what they truly value in their life's work or impact on the world.
What's a secret you believe everyone keeps, but no one talks about? This reveals their cynicism or empathy towards humanity and their own hidden struggles.
Are you the person you pretended to be as a child? This explores the gap between their childhood dreams and their adult reality, revealing their sense of fulfillment or disillusionment.
What's the one thing that will always make you feel like a child again? This question taps into their inner vulnerabilities and the triggers for nostalgia and uninhibited emotion.
What's a story someone else tells about you that you wish they wouldn't? This reveals the disconnect between their own self-image and how they're perceived by others.
Internal World
What is your greatest fear, and what does it say about you? Go beyond the superficial fear (like heights) and ask what the root of that fear is. Is it fear of being forgotten, of failure, or of losing control?
What do your dreams or nightmares most often center on? This is a direct line into their subconscious mind, revealing their deepest anxieties, hopes, and unresolved conflicts.
What is a personal ritual or routine you couldn't live without? This gets at their sense of grounding, their discipline, and the small things that provide comfort and structure.
What is your most cherished possession, and what is its story? This is a way to explore what they value—is it a keepsake, a tool, or something else entirely? The story behind it reveals its symbolic importance.
If you had to distill your life into a single piece of art—a song, a painting, a poem—what would it be and why? This is a creative way to get them to summarize their essence and emotional landscape.
What is the one thing you are most proud of, even if no one else knows about it? This taps into their internal metric for success and what gives them a true sense of personal accomplishment.
When do you feel most powerful, and when do you feel most helpless? This question reveals the situations where they are in their element versus where they struggle with vulnerability, providing insight into their sense of agency and control.
Rolling Dice, Not Clicking Mice: The Magic of Gaming Together
While digital platforms keep us connected, they can't replace the magic of playing in person. From reading unspoken tells across the table to the satisfying weight of dice in your hand, gathering to play creates a unique energy. Let’s explore the powerful connection of rolling dice, not just clicking mice.
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